Really liked the framing for this! The one piece of timeful advice that didn’t land as well was being in no rush to find a partner in your 20s. Anecdotally, friends who prioritized learning about themselves over finding a partner in their early 20s seem to have fared well because of that decision - they understood much better their values, how they wanted to live their life / spend their time, and who would be a good counterpart given those things.
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Really liked the framing for this! The one piece of timeful advice that didn’t land as well was being in no rush to find a partner in your 20s. Anecdotally, friends who prioritized learning about themselves over finding a partner in their early 20s seem to have fared well because of that decision - they understood much better their values, how they wanted to live their life / spend their time, and who would be a good counterpart given those things.
Always enjoy your writing ! :)